You have just moved to a new city for work. The local customs and pace are different from what you're used to. You want to fit in and learn from those around you, but you also don't want to lose your own values. How do you decide whom to follow and how to adapt?
你刚搬到新城市工作,当地习俗和节奏与你以往不同。你想融入并向周围人学习,但也不想失去自己的价值观。你如何决定跟随谁、如何适应?
When you adapt to a new environment, how do you balance following others with staying true to your own direction?
当你适应新环境时,你如何平衡跟随他人与坚持自己的方向?





《彖传》说刚来下柔、动而悦,所以成随;天下皆须随时,故随的时义很大。
The Tuan Commentary says strength comes down to yield, movement joins delight, and this makes Following. The whole world must follow the time, so its timely meaning is great.
Thunder within the Lake: Following. The noble one enters rest and repose as dusk approaches.
雷在泽中,动中有收。懂得随时休息,才不让顺势变成耗竭。
Thunder rests within the Lake: movement includes withdrawal. Knowing when to rest prevents adaptation from becoming exhaustion.